Saturday, 13 June 2015

Wouldn’t it be better to be courageous?





I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear. – Nelson Mandela

Courage is doing it afraid. It is facing fear in the face and moving on. It is showing compassion to the one who maltreats you. It is living with a selfish and wicked spouse yet loving them with the love of God. It is not giving up even when it is so glaring you are facing serious oppositions on all sides. It is smiling while going through the proverbial eye of a needle.

Courage will put a spring in your steps; it will bring out the best in you. People who await your downfall in your time of adversity may not understand your resolve but you know why giving up isn’t an option. 

Courage isn’t failing; it is rising from the ashes of discouragement, it is standing to your feet when you’ve been beaten to the ground, dusting off your clothes and matching forward. In the school of courage, your perspective matters a lot.

Courage is when a parent loves their child born with disability and helps him discover the purpose for his being regardless of his obvious handicap. Celebrities like Stevie wonder, Cobhams Asuquo, John Foppe and so many others were not born ‘whole’ but they have excelled and are being celebrated the world over. They would have ended up on road sides as beggars but for their parents whose support, love and encouragement made a difference in their lives.

Pastor Chirs Oyakhilome defines courage as “the ability and the will to do what is right or necessary even when you’re faced with adversity. It is the will and ability to stand up for what is right in spite of opposition.”

We need men and women of courage in all spheres of life in this nation as leaders of industry, in the Executive, Legislature, Judiciary, in fact, wherever human beings are found. We need people who will stand up for what is right in the sight of God. We need youths who can live right and change their world for good. 

God made man in his image and likeness. He gave all his creatures the ability to discern between good and evil. The wickedness of man against his fellow man is as a result of the choice the individual makes not necessarily because he is unaware of the consequences of his actions.

We should safeguard the future of our country and not leave it in the hands of a select few whose minds have been seared with a hot iron. Some of our leaders have compromised their position and as far as they are concerned, Nigeria belongs to them and their cronies. It will take courageous people to wrest this great nation out of their hands and position it rightly for the benefit of all citizens.

Terrorists, armed robbers, kidnappers and their ilk know their trade is a dangerous one but they believe in a cause which they are convinced will lead them somewhere desirable not minding the sorrow and pain they inflict on their victims in the course of their activities. That kind of courage for the positive, to strengthen others, to give them hope is what we yearn for. That is what will make people believe in their leaders. 

Human beings naturally want to follow those who are stronger than them, who are motivators not manipulators, who know where they are going, who are good communicators who can encourage them because according to John Maxwell, ‘encouragement is the engine of the soul’.

Have the courage to face a fight even to make a fight. Whatever you do, do not chicken out when the battle gets fiercer. Give your adversaries something to talk about so that when you eventually emerge from the furnace of affliction, your transformation, upliftment and deliverance will be evident for all to see.

Courage is not joining the bandwagon to cause mayhem. It is standing out from the crowd when everybody is going the popular way. It is literally being on your own so to say in pursuing a cause you believe in. Everybody needs courage.

Courage is not just physical bravery; we have entrepreneurs such as Aliko Dangote and Bill Gates who have impacted their world positively by following their dreams, great leaders such as Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela amongst others who risked their lives and chose to speak out against injustice. Courage is facing challenges with dignity or faith.

God told Joshua, Moses’ successor to be courageous because he knew the task ahead was going to be very daunting. As a leader, Joshua understood it was not going to be a tea party. He must have had his strategies on how to lead the Israelites but God’s assurance of being with him while he steers the wheel of leadership must have made the task very easy and rewarding. 

Courage elicits commitment. He was committed to making his contribution to the people of God and it helped him a great deal because when the people saw war, Joshua knew from hindsight they would prevail. He was emboldened to carry on because of the encouragement he got from God.

David was a youth when he defeated the giant goliath of Gath who terrorized his nation for some time. Before his emergence on the scene, he had demonstrated courage at various times while taking care of his father’s cattle in the wilderness. He confronted and killed wild animals that attempted to eat up the flock under his care, so he knew what he was up against when he faced the giant.

Nothing good comes easy. If you must excel in life, courage is a virtue you must not toy with because with it, you can do that which seems impossible only if you don’t quit mid-way.

Anyone can start something but it takes guts and perseverance to win the game. The wrong things most times seem to produce better results but they do not last. The good will always prevail over the bad no matter what. 

You were born for something; courage will lead you to discover your purpose for living. Do not give it all up because of some light afflictions. Just like those who conquered their world, you can also show your mettle and be counted for something worthwhile. 

I charge you to be courageous and hopeful. Although trials and temptations assail you, look to a higher force and be encouraged. Only believe you are not alone. At the end of the day you would discover it really pays to be strong and of a good courage.

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